Your sexual performance is only part of the equation when it comes to being in bed with a woman. Being able to knock it out of the park when it comes to performance is definitely great, but what you say – and how you say it – can make or break a sexual encounter. Check out our definitive list of the ten things women want to hear in bed, and make at least a few a part of your repertoire for best results.

All too often, guys cut their options short by focusing only on a single girl each and every time they go out on a date.

In other words, many guys approach dating from a strictly monogamous standpoint. 

Although there's something to be said for limiting the number of women that juggle at once, having tunnel vision about dating can seriously backfire.Still, knowing when it is and isn't appropriate to date other people can be confusing; you don't want to scare a potentially good thing off, but you don't want to miss out on prime opportunities either. 

 When it comes to freaking her out in bed, there are good ways and bad ways.

Although every woman is different, there are some things that you should definitely avoid doing when it comes to being intimate – especially if you're hoping for a return engagement. Try to avoid doing the following things if you don't want to freak her out – in a bad way – in bed. 

Even the best relationships can grow a bit played out and dull over time.

The initial rush of sexual excitement that goes along with meeting somebody new and falling in love gradually comes to an end. However, just because you and your lover are in it for the long haul doesn’t have to mean your sex life has to suffer. In fact, keeping things interesting when it comes to sex can help keep the entire relationship fresh and exciting.

"A kiss is a pleasant reminder that two heads are better than one”! Now, who wouldn’t agree with me on this statement? A gentle kiss from your lover or spouse can lift your spirits and make you feel wonderfully happy even when you are depressed. A relationship is all about trying out new things to keep away boredom and monotony from setting in. a fun way to do that is by trying out different types of kisses. It can take your relationship to a whole new level and both will be glad that you tried it, since it will bond you all the more closer.